Friday, December 28, 2007
Our hearts go out to all our family. We have not experienced and could not imagine what you have had to overcome and continue to face. We can't say we understand nor have the words to soften what you are feeling. Sometimes time puts distance between us. Gary didn't let that happen. Whenever we were able to make it to visit he acted as though we had just seen him the previous day. Usually in the lobby waiting to greet us, give us a hug, pick on the kids, give us hell, and offer a drink. Many laughs were shared with him, he always had a way. In the midst of complete family chaos and bustle, he had a way about him to make you feel like you were looking at it all from a distance and be able to make you laugh. Everyone always knew where Gary and Barb's room was, . . we knew we'd be welcome and felt comfortable as soon as we were offered a seat. Chad always enjoyed visiting with Gary, he always made him laugh. He's still laughing at some of the times they shared, stunts and jokes, (pretending to shove us over the cliff - and expecting our thanks when he heroically held us back "It's a good thing I was there I just saved your life") I will never forget my first memory of Gary - him and Alex drove me in sane my first jamboree awaiting my notification of passing my nurses board. They became such a precious part of that moment in my life - and they knew how damn bad they were driving me nuts! I wish I would have known him longer. We'll miss you at family gatherings, it will hurt that you're not there. We love ya Gary, we will keep you in our hearts and memories. Will miss you, Chad
